Do the children have a say about access?

Children generally do not have a say in access. Very young children benefit from having a loving and stable relationship with both parents and should not be placed in a position of "choosing" whether or not to see the non-custodial parent. Certainly, this is a dangerous area for parents since the children may be used as pawns in the parents' quarrels. Both parents should work to build strong relationships with the children. At a certain age, generally around 12, but also dependent upon the maturity of the child, a court may be willing to hear from a child about his or her preferences.

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