I lost track of my husband 15 years ago and have no idea where
he is. How can I divorce him?
You
must either serve your husband with the claim for divorce so that
he gets a copy personally, or get a judge to give you an order allowing
you not to serve him or to serve him in some other way. Your lawyer
will ask you to do some legwork here — you should contact
any of his friends, relatives, or employers that might know where
he is. You
should also try to contact him at his last known address.
Your
lawyer will include the results of these inquiries in a document
called an affidavit and ask you to swear to the
truth of the information in the affidavit. It will then be filed
at the courthouse and your lawyer will make an application to a
judge for directions about what to do next to try to bring the divorce
proceedings to your husband's attention.
The
judge will want to see that you made a genuine effort to locate
him. The judge might do away with any need to get the petition to
your husband, or order that your lawyer mail a copy to your husband's
last known address, or advertise a notice of the petition in the
local newspaper in the community where your husband was last known
to have been. Usually, the judge will also order a waiting period
of about 30 days after mailing or publication to give the spouse
time to respond. Once the waiting period is over, if you have not
heard from your husband, your lawyer may proceed with your divorce.
WARNING:
The contents of these FAQs are intended as general legal information
only.
If
you have a personal problem, please consult a lawyer.
June
2006 |